You're walking down the street and a bus pulls up next to you. On one side of the bus is a huge advertisement of a woman in nothing but a bra and panties. Her lips are painted red. Her head is tilted back and her mouth is open in an orgasmic way, you are baffled and quickly turn away. You continue walking down the street and stop to do some window shopping. Each window display has a huge poster of semi-naked women, doing their best to grab your attention.... Further down the street you notice a billboard with a woman and 2 men. The woman is on top of one of the men wearing nothing but her underwear and her hair is messy to give the effect that she has just had intercourse with him. Another man stands next to the woman with his back to the couple, naked and putting on a pair of pants.... The billboard is advertising clothing yet the message is clear. This woman just had sex with two men and enjoyed it, and you too can have a threesome if you buy their clothes....
You're at home and your kids want to use the computer. As you check your email a pornographic image pops up and you quickly click it off before your kids can see. You check your mail and notice a dozen emails promoting sex toys or pornographic sites. You cant escape it, its everywhere! You decide to turn on the tv and watch a documentary. During the commercial breaks semi-naked women and men show intimate poses as they advertise new products, you turn off the tv...
Sexual images are everywhere. They are in music videos, advertisements, sitcoms, movies, magazines, internet, etc. The only way to stay away from such images is to lock yourself in your house, get rid of your computer and tv and isolate yourself from the world. No longer are you safe as you walk outdoors or go shopping, the sexual images are everywhere....
Earlier this week in my seminar class, my professor had us watch a film called "for the price of pleasure" and in this film you see the darkside of pornography. I know a lot of men think that watching porn is harmless and that it has no effect on their relationships with women or on their psyche.... They are WRONG!!!! For example, a man starts off watching soft porn, or looking at women in magazines, over a period of time he no longer gets stimulated by these images. He needs something more graphic to capture his attention and stimulate him. He then gets into more disturbing porn... After awhile he is no longer stimulated by heterosexual sex and begins to turn to gay porn or even beastaility (sex with animals)...At first, this type of sex disgusted him, but over time he needed new things to stimulate him and began to get turned on by it.... He then gets bored with this and turns to hardcore porn where women are tortured or even porns where women are raped or gang raped....
This is very damaging to the man and society. If a man is getting turned on by gang rapes, or torturing women, or urinating on her or taking a "dump" on her as they have sex, how does this NOT affect him.... it does!!! He can no longer get stimulated by regular sex. He begins to ask his partner to experiment and try new things, more vulger and dirty each time... He no longer sees her as a person, instead he begins to dehumanize her and sees her as nothing as an object. He becomes a robot when they have sex, enjoying rough sex, slapping her, spitting on her, using vulger names to turn himself on. She feels degraded and disturbed by this yet does it to please him. What women need to realize is MEN run the porn companies, MEN are the ones who are usually directors for music videos, advertisments, etc...
What is alarming is that sex trafficing is higher in the US than any other country!!! Kids are being kidnapped and abducted from their houses and sold to the black market where they become sex slaves.
Women contribute to this epidemic by the clothing they wear, their participation in pornographic movies, advertisements, etc. Women that are targeted are the uneducated who are looking to make quick cash, minorities, women who have been sexually abused, and women with limited access to resources.
Its not surprising that a lot of women who are in the porn industry have been sexually abused. A common effect of sexual abuse on women is promiscuity...
A woman gets paid more money for the more penises she can put in her vagina, anus, mouth, etc. The more partners she has sex with in one video, the more she makes. You then see women having a gang rape scene where in one shot she has sex with 13 men, and 3 men will insert their penises into her vagina or anus at the SAME time!!! She has become nothing but a tool..... the empty, blank looks of the women in porn are haunting.... yet men watch this and then get stimulated and think that ALL women are eager to have sex and eager to please a man. In porn, its all about pleasing a man.... the woman is submissive to the man and always acts excited and eager to please him. She is always ready for sex..... this sends a very dangerous message to the men who watch this.....
Is it any wonder that sexual abuse is on the rise? The internet has made is easier for men to access porn and we are now seeing the effects of men who were raised by the internet and grew up watching porn. You have porn that caters to your every desire and need. You even have sites where men kill the women (lets hope its not real) and cut off her limbs or head and then stick their penises into her dead body or mouth..... This is so disturbing!!!!!
2 comments:
SIS! IT's so sick! I was reading about this in a psych article on sexual abuse cases with wives and girlfriends. And it can actually go both ways where the woman turns into the abuser not just the man.
But going back to what I was saying, these kind of behaviors actually go an additional step. Because they no longer get stimulated by these actions, they look at them on a real life situation. It might start with animals and eventually evolve into humans at some point. In interviews with a few patients at the mental facility that a few of these patients were being diagnosed at, they were actually trying to act out these certain things to get their "High" or "Stimulant" in layman's terms.
This including murdering one particular prostitute that he had hired because he wanted the thrill of seeing her in one certain 'position' desperate to live and struggling, in other words he let her die to see the look on her face as he made sure to get his 'stimulate' during the process.
And the subjects started on a course just as your post was outlined, something so small that evolved into what 'normal' people would call disgusting practices and abnormalities.
What has this world come to and when will people see what this kind of stuff it doing to people seriously!
BTW, don't we just love psych and social/community studies! I went to a hospital to put in for an internship last week and WOWSA I was shocked just sitting there waiting and listening to some of the stories. But then again, I can't wait to get in there and help people who need it. I can see why you enjoy what you do so much sis because I'm right there with you sis ;o)
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